Showing posts with label wife. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wife. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

The Other Man

This is my favourite favourite of the lot. I discovered this one, when I was enjoying my pretty vacations in Kerala's Munnar. It was so pretty, especially because of the monsoons, since I went off-season. Well, I always visit pretty destinations during their typical off-season. It is my strategy to utilize the opportunity to be the very few tourists to enjoy the beautiful location, unlike during the visit friendly seasons, when tourists flock in great numbers. That ways I end up looking human beings again and not the place that I have come to visit.

Anyways, coming back to my movie, I just loved the representation of the husband discovering about the adultery ways of his dead wife, whom he loved a lot, well she also loved him a lot. Just that she loved another man also apart from her husband. But nowhere in the movie it seems that the woman committed a crime of exploring illegal ways of finding love and happiness in her life, nor that her husband is depicted to be non-loving or villain kinds, it is just that she falls in love with that other man, although being deeply in love with her own husband.

As I mentioned, that I watched this movie when I was on my vacation, so I missed watching the entire movie, so immediately after returning from my "trip to Kerala"*,  I watched the entire movie from start to the end. And I was in love with it. Nobody seems to be wrong in the story, neither the husband who is so hurt and jealous of the man with whom his wife was having an affair, nor the other man, beautifully played by Antonio Bendares, and of course not the wife who at the first place started the entire complexity to the situation.

Well, just to think of it, she loved her husband so much that she purposely kept her passwords to the computer out so that her husband gets to know about her secrets once she is physically gone from his life.

She also loved that other man so much that in spite of knowing that he was bankrupt, she loved him candidly and even tried helping him out.

And our poor defeated husband who was earlier bursting of malice for the other man, so much so that he even contrives killing him, but the moment he realised that he loved his wife truly, he pardons him as well.

And how can I keep myself from mentioning that the real icing on the cake was when he realises that his wife did not succumb to adultery ways because of the other man's money or power, but just because he loved her immensely, he pardons her as well.

He also treats and provides financial help to the poor janitor his wife was in love with, ahhhh there slows down the male ego...lol

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* will blog about my trip to Kerala soon, that was so hilarious...
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Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Husband's Happy Birthday

What could be the best gift to a husband after 6 years of marriage; 4 years of courtship and 1 year of literal running and chasing her??? Well, that makes 11 years of seeing, knowing and tolerating the same woman for 11 long years...

Therefore, to make things different and especially beautiful for him, I escaped being with him on his birthday. Let him enjoy with his friends, what else some thing special could a wife for her dearest husband??

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Sunday, August 14, 2011

Marital Relations - IV

A young girl was bitten by the fashion fad of hair straightening.
Being a student, she did not have enough allowances with her to get her hair properly straightened at a hair salon.

She then approached her boyfriend to fund the same for her. Poor boyfriend had no other option but to succumb to his girl friend’s whims and fancies.

He started saving from his part-time job to gather enough cash to gift to his girl friend.
After some time the girl got the required amount of funds from her boy friend. She duly used the funds to get the perfect straightened hair that she was wanting since a long time.

Naturally, she was very happy after the entire experience, and went straight to her boy friend to show him her perfect mane.

She kept twisting and turning flaunting her sleek hair, the way probably a child would do with a new toy he would have been gifted on his third birthday.

Few minutes must have passed in flattery, when she suddenly realized that her boy friend had not been truly appreciative of her efforts in looking better, except for uttering “nice, nice” just a few times.

At once she started accusing him of being not committal and unappreciative towards her.

The moment her tears started rolling, the boy friend got nervous and ended up saying something in a complete fumble.

Boy Friend: “Oh dear, you look so lovely. Your hair is as flat as my pockets right now Oh, rather as flat as your chest. !!”

Obviously, they both never met after the conversation.

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Monday, August 8, 2011

Marital Relations - III

Once a

newly married bride was novice at cooking as well.

Everyday she would prepare a meal for the dinner.

That was the only meal they both used to have together. It was their work life that made the dinner to be the only meal they used to have at home.

Each night before sleeping, wife would ask the husband about the meal.

Wife: “How was the dinner tonight?”

Husband: “Very well, just like you my love?”

This happened for sometime, and then one fine day some friends called on the couple for drinks.

The lady decided to cook some dinner for the guests. The husband suggested many a times to his wife, of ordering food from a restaurant in order to save her time and energy.

Nevertheless, the lady cooked the food for the guests, and thanked her husband for being so thoughtful of her.

After the drinks, everyone looked forward to the meal.

Somehow the guests did not like the food that was served. Although they were courteous to not let the hosts know about it. They simply tasted everything, and filled their tummies with the snacks and bites that were not home-made.

Being witness to all this, the lady was very sad. She was under-going frustration, but she kept herself calm till the guests left.

After they left, the lady started crying out of frustration and understood the whole thing.

She understood that she was never good at cooking, and her husband always lied to her all this while.

The husband tried pacifying her, but she kept crying and shouting.

She confronted him and asked him what made him lie to her for so long.

The man not knowing how to react simply answered: “I always thought of sleeping with a peaceful mind, if not the tummy”
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Saturday, August 6, 2011

Marital Relations - II

Every time after visiting his mother’s grave, husband used to shed a tear.

The entire drive back home used to be in silence, along with the company of his wife.

Years and years passed, but the wife did not find any change in her husband’s love for his beloved mother.

Each visit to the mother’s grave would bring tears to the man.

Moved by her husband’s devotion and love for his dead mother, she happened to ask him once.

Wife: “Darling, will you love me with the same intensity, as you do to your mother”

Husband replied: “Yes, love I would, why would I not”

Wife: “Promise??”

Husband: “Yes, that’s a promise!!”

Wife: “Will you even shed tears if I happen to die someday??”

Husband: “Of course, but I cannot promise if the tears would be of the same nature!!”

Friday, August 5, 2011

Marital Relations - I

A businessman’s educated wife once asked him why he was not willing to take her in his business.

She would often pester him with the question, explaining to him each time that they could work better together, and he can use her experience to bring his business to better success.

But he would always ignore her, and would leave her frustrated.

One day the argument on the same topic reached to the Do or Die situation.

That is when the husband explained to his wife, that marriage is more like the prepaid balance in your mobile card.

It is up to you to finish all the talk-time in a day’s time, or else use it minimally each day for a longer period of time.

The question of wife joining her husband’s business was never discussed again.